I was a witness for 30 years and always felt like an intruder knocking on peoples doors. I always felt it was rather aroogant of us to presume the householder needed us. I am married to a man who joined the witnesses to please me, so when I decided to leave, he was quite happy. I have two beautifull children who are benefitting hugely by the extra time we spend together instead of rushing off to meetings, assemblys, field service and being told to sit quietly and listen !!! My entire family are witnesses and cannot understand what has happened to us. All hoping we will return.